There’s more to BDSM that just spankings and handcuffs. Creating a great scene requires some planning and imagination. Luckily you don’t have to do all of the thinking yourself. This article has steps through a classic BDSM scene idea – teacher roleplay.
Another great idea here – BDSM scene idea – interrogation.
Before you do any of this play, it’s important that you have done a proper BDSM negotiation with your partner. You need to establish what each other likes, dislikes, and what each others hard limits are. To help guide you through this process, it can be helpful to use a BDSM negotiation checklist.